Hello :B omg its been forever since I've blogged!
Well, hi!
Haha there's been something i've been itching to let out, but i had no idea who to talk about it to.
And yeahbaby, I remembered my bloggie. hehe. c:
Anyways.
I've rly been wanting to say all this ever since it happened about 3 hours ago.
So, I was on the bus today otw to yishun to meet my mum.
And when i got on, thre was this very obese boy leaning against the window, sleeping.
He was snoring really loudly because of his size,
and almost everyone on the bus was taking occasional glances at him.
Just because of his size.
I was carrying my laptop and it was kinda heavy, and the seat next to him was the only one empty and everyone else was standing.
It's almost like no one wanted to sit with him.
But either way, I just sat there.
He's just a boy thats overweight. We're still no different from him.
We are all still humans.
And what really got to me the most was when I sat down beside that boy,
people started looking at me, 1,2,3 seconds, then looking away.
As if I just commited a sin.
Then the boy woke up, and he looked around.
He noticed the stares, it was so obvious. But he seemed so used to it.
It's just so..harsh and unfair.
Why don't we put ourselves in his shoes for a moment?
We wouldn't like that. And if we were treated like that when we're kids,
we wouldn't like it, and also not understand why.
I'm a human too. I'm just like them too. But why am I being treated so differently?
See how it works? Its fucked up.
No one should be judged this way.
It sounds hypocritical to make such a statement because we are all still humans.
But no, don't judge anyone just because of how they look.
Have you thought of what they've probably been through?
Society simply does not accept an obese person. full stop.
They get treated almost completely differently than those who are average-sized.
I hate how that works, and I hate it when tht voice in our heads tell us :
'oh well, that's just the way it is.'
Yeah its that way, but that's so not how it should be.
None of us gets to choose how we want to look and be before we're born.
Man if we did have a choice,
-bulimia
-anorexia
-obesity
-binge-eating
etcetc,
probably wouldn't even exist. This just shows how harsh our world is today..\:
People that were born with a face tht looks different from the rest of us.
Be it they were born prematurely.
Or they were just overweight since childhood.
Every single one of us deserve to be accepted.
Regardless of size, skintone, religion, whatsoever.
Why can't everyone just wipe the judging away from their eyes.
Having your own mindset is fine, great actually, but it's the judging tht blinds us.
I admire that boy so much, I really do.
He's brave. Very brave. And strong.
I'm sure he's aware of how he looks. He has eyes.
But he still gets on the bus.
Kudos to him.
He deserves so much better. Everyone who gets treated differently for no good reason fucking does.
Fuck those that judges so easily.
Treat others like how you wanna be treated.
If rejecting/hurting others because of how they look, makes you feel better about yourself in a way or another, then theres something rly wrong with you.
I believe tht everyone deserves a chance to be accepted, and to be happy. (:
Well yeap, tht's about all.
Feel so much better after letting this all out. Phew.
But at th end of the day, there would definitely be thoughts like these :
'whats th point? would this even change anything?'.
Nah, it might not.
0.01% chance it would.
Well, what's new? Sigh..
World peace please come nao >: hahaha.
myeyesareclosing. goodnight people, i shall blog regularly from now.
It feels kinda nice to have somewhere where you can totally express your thoughts out. <: and talk about whatever you please.
Haha, kay, goodnightttttttt (:
bai!
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